Pretence.

Its strange how easily man becomes a a victim to his own pretences.And when he realizes his own victimisation ,he represses that feeling and utmosltly try to live in a state of denial in the first stage,in the second stage he gets annoyed tries everything to get rid of his own pretences but fails,in the third and final stage he just laughs at his own pretences because these are the secret little ways of tolerating ones aloneness(Nietzsche's words).